adrian: ( in response to your comment)
Adam "God, why do you make women so beautiful?"
God "so that you would love her"
Adam "then why do you make them so dumb?"
God "so she'd love you."
hahahaha.. i don't know which gender this joke is supposed to diss but rest assured, true love is about loving everything including flaws. so maybe that girl WILL put you against that measuring stick, but even if you don't quite fit, she'll still love you just the same.
isn't that better than not having the measuring stick at all?
to people who are reading this because of becca's blog. i was not desperate. ok maybe i was. only because i want to know who that special man of becca could be!! the line about never getting laid off was gold.
so here goes mine. (this is the trend set by brent/kwan, i swear i don't sit here and daydream about guys!!! i swear! hahah)
1) A reborn Christian who loves God more than anything in the world and is devoted to live his life according to His will
2) preferably more mature than me in his walks whether in life or with God
3) respect women in general, and know that even though men and women should have equal rights, they are created to be different. And women should be cherished and taken care of (not to be beaten up)
4) treats me the way he wants to be treated
5) is considerate and polite. and knows what it takes to work hard for what he gets. i don't need some spoiled brat for me to take care of
6) someone who isn’t afraid to tell me how he feels about me
7) respect PMS, that's right. The more he’s pissed off at me being pissed off at PMS, the more pissed off I’d be. Hahahahh
8) who is willing to take the extra step to know me, and ask “what’s wrong?” more than once even tho I’ve already said there’s “nothing”. Hahahaha (and guys. that works for almsot every girl out there.)
9) Confident about who he is. Know that God loves him and he has a purpose on this earth and isn’t afraid to pursue it
10) have compassion on people and the world
11) be passionate about the things he do or loves
12) is comfortable enough in the relationship that wouldn’t care when some ppl called him whipped because he knows better. (heeheh!!!)
13) Is enough of a man to be able to apologize for things he’s done wrong
14) too clingy is no good *shudder*
and you want the shallow part? here goes
- broad shoulders.
- Nice smile with dimple (s) =) (DIMPLES ARE HOT!)
- Not muscular, those guys that are obsessed with their bodies frightens me
- Taller than me
- Smells good? (actually he has to)
- Absolutely no long hair!
- Has a firm hug
- Strong enough to fight back but wouldn’t =)
- and no.. i don't really care if he's BIG unless it's unhealthy, KWAN! hahaha
Monday, January 24, 2005
completely random thoughts/rantings. thought you might be interested.
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7 Comments:
"what's wrong my dear?" x 20 times = a real man
i don't care if you're fat my honey bunch qq, there's only more of you to love!!
"what's wrong my dear?" x 20 times = a real man
i don't care if you're fat my honey bunch qq, there's only more of you to love!!
*want someone healthy* = NO FAT GUYS!!!!
there!!! i win =)
the broad shoulders always gets my attention. yeh yeh!
and i TOTALLY AGREE with #7 & 8.
what's the point if the guy can't tolerate the pms-ing....!?!? haha. good list q...
haha I enjoyed the list ...I have printed it out ...and taped copies all over my wall ...I"m sure kwan has done the same =P
Wow...this whole fad w/ writing up your standards for your spouse has really evolved into one sick gender battle...our critique of the opposite gender has been so intricately broken down and compartmentalized into the spiritual, physical and intellectual aspects it's freaky. I certainly hope that I'm not scrutinized under these lenses when I meet a girl...anyway, that's my two cents...bottom line: Judge me not!
Hmm... interesting list :P Hehh... I'm obsessed with my body, but not I'm really THAT muscular, LOL :P
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